The importance of the belief (part 03)

    Let’s continue from where we stopped before, and to mention some points here. The fearing of god → means that this person is thinking in sequences before doing everything, and not only –as everybody can do that too-, but s/he remembers that he’s having limits that s/he shouldn’t exceed them, and even when it’s possible to do and nobody can notice that but it’s invalid to doing that, then preferably to avoid as a choice and with a conviction→ which means also the self-control even when nobody else can notice that, and no collapse in behaviors or in values, from here the humanity got its moral culture, and in this context; people do a lot of thing in good sense in their around, without waiting anything in return from others, then they’re applying certain of real noble principles towards the world and humanity → and during that, s/he will be doing his/her obligation (with conviction of course) towards everyone (everything) around as much as possible for the god’s sake, and fearing god of hurting them too in every treatment or dealing with, that can look meaningless for those who didn’t experiment that really, because the god’s satisfaction is what s/he is looking for -in first place- and always there is a reason to stop them even if they get a bad intention in something.

    And when the goal is common between all people (and prior than the private interests and only), then it’ll be fair for all to agree with that rule, which shows the justice in front of all people alike, right. Because it’s so impossible to have a contradiction in purposes here between the god's satisfaction and people's agreement in such situation while all rules are applied on all at the same time and way.

    That’s above when we talk about the influence of religion on people’s transactions and dealings, and when we talk about the spiritual impact, we’ll see something else, may people today accuse the religious as weak people and they don’t trust themselves enough to face the life, in other words they claim the perfection and no need to any religion to live a proper life whereas they’re worshiping different idols when they don’t know, but the human nature requires to fill the spiritual side and complete that need inside, so historically many people left the religion when they don’t find their peace inside, but not only, they didn’t just accuse the way they were on, but generally the term of religion became inexistent for them completely, just from the only one experience they had, and that’s why they rejected all.

    Scientist and Philosophers confirm the belief as a part of every single soul, even those who make the mind just the only way to ruling the life instead of any other religion (which is useless), and to ruling the life by mind, it’s necessary to belief in the power of their minds and that are able to do everything, so without that certitude in their power and their authenticity, they can’t rely so much on their mind, and that means the belief. Religion was like a shadow of the humanity since the first age in obvious way that nobody can deny it.

    But Then they couldn’t continue in this way, because the spiritual side is empty and they’ve to cover it, not because the creator needs the obedience of human to him, but because the inner need of human to his creator to filling the spiritual emptiness, therefore a lot of people were( /are still ) looking for that mean to filling the shortage in the Far East (especially in the philosophical currents of Hinduism and Buddhism) or and learn that by their money instead of following the steps of their spiritual physicians sent by the god (like one scholar has said). As examples, people are learning yoga, or tai-chi, although we can’t deny their advantages on body and mind, like some other sports too, but not enough to cover all the spiritual needs in the modern life even if they calm down a bit that need, but can’t resist longer nor getting nirvana with life’s hardships.

    Furthermore, nowadays the social and economic pressures on every person are more than they were in decades before, because the world’s situation troubled in different sides, and so the feelings of fear increase too into everyone, that what explain (according studies) the inclination to astrology just to hearing what they want to hear and calming down their fears from totally the unclear future.

    People without a metaphysical stability are facing a lot of changes in the physical world, and they get many colors of distraction in life to have that chaos and wonder always, that lead many times to waves of depression, wondering, suicide ….etc. This last has high rates among the no-religious societies, and that reveals on the loss of the goal into their hearts, why do we live? And for which purpose are we living a period of certain years then leave this world? The true meaning from life totally is into the answer. Can the mind works with religion together to give a convenient answer?

Some details about Ez-zakah mechanism

    I talked in the previous article about one important mechanism “EZ-ZAKAH” and I displayed generally how this system can affect on people’s life, like the social benefits on people, and the big results of equality in incomes even we don’t reach 100% but we can obtain better than we're in now. This system was used in past and its effectiveness has proven. But I didn’t mention how the mechanism is applied and how is the way exactly to apply that?

    To make it more obvious for people who read before, I’ll review some details:

    In first place; It isn’t easy to make rich people dispense of some of their money annually, and that calls in minds that the matter is depending on kind of attitude (conduct / manners), which work in starting from the human belief of whether charity and obligation to do. The feeling of guiltiness “in this way” is greater than when it comes “in policies’ way”. I mean the religious aspect in the human character, people can deceive rules but they can’t deceive themselves when there is a true belief inside, it’s necessary so to complete the integrity and sincerity of human being, and i talked before that we can't make a strict rules of all (social, economic and cultural sides) of society’s life without interference of manners and religions too.

    Secondly, i didn't mention the people who really deserve this money, besides to say they're 8 kinds of people, besides the strict procedures are detailed in this mechanism to function correctly and efficiently. And these people who deserve to get this amount of money, they're also needed to have some qualities (ethic), so like the first one accepts to give his money, the second also must have some characteristics. And that brings the mutual confidence and trust between all people in the same society, especially when they see the positive effects of their money appearing in the fact.

    Thirdly, I can notice some kinds who deserve to get that money, and give examples for that. The poor people (in 2 parts: who haven't the food even for one day, and who can't provide to themselves everything necessary to live (basic for life)). It’s a right for those in bondage and those in debt. For the wayfarer people who travel in everywhere for study or seeking livelihood. The people who employed to administer and gather that big money from rich people in all provinces, also they have a portion, like charitable projects,....etc and other kinds as well. The students (in different ages) also get their finance from this money. And every kind - among these 8 kinds - has a defined portion, precisely.

     It’s true that the world has a huge diversity between people, and that appears also in their experiences, and they’re amazing and successful experiences which are able to change our world is we apply them, a lot of experiences are in different nations and accumulated for several years to be fruitful. If we learn from each other and share the valuable knowledge (wherever it is), we can get many benefits and have better life in all sides mentioned above.

One from systems of fighting the infringement on rights

    There are many different ways to insure some social rights for people in the economic side, and to make the equality more efficiency between them in distribution & redistribution of wealth in way that all people of nation feel by equality and justice. I don’t mean to distribute and give to anybody a certain amount of money “NO”, but according to specified rules and for people who really deserve we can guarantee a certain positive results after a while. We always need to discover the world and learn from experiences of different nations – useful experiences – to choose the best for applying them in life as models, today I want to talk about one mechanism in the same context (redistribution of wealth) and share you the information which i know about, it isn’t just a theory but it’s existing in fact.

    “AZ-ZAKAH” it’s the first organized system in history devoted to realise this purpose, it is not just a way to make charity, but it’s an obligation on rich people to give (to acquit) 0.4% (in every year) for the poor.  This system is defined by 3 verses are revealed on Mohammed: the 1^st imposes on the government to take this ratio through an administrative organization (it looks like taxes in first time). In this fact; the rich people believe absolutely that they apply their faith well when undertaking that (dogmatic obligation), and that’s useful for their moral, for their psyches, their feeling and mood as well. Because they obey a religious order and they know properly where their money will go in the end.

    The 2^nd verse assigns precisely the kind of people in society who deserve really a proportion of this wealth (they’re mentioned in 8 different kinds from people). The 3^rd verse show us a moral (ethical) value between people that they don’t ask anyone for money in order to satisfy their needs, and they should be satisfied by the disposable resources the most possible of time.

    The purpose from this system is to guarantee social and economic rights respecting the various segments of society. Furthermore; the people who get this income -in respectful way- they don’t feel anything bad like deprivation or shortcoming. All this harmony inside the society is coming from the interference of faith in the conduct of state. Because of the ethical values derived from belief and everyone can feel the worth of his existence with no marginalization, then a lot of social diseases will disappear from the social life because of the satisfaction feeling (we find a social equilibration). This is not everything; other procedures also are applied in order to organizing more and cover every form of instability (like: preventing the usury and resisting against the monopoly, and decreasing the inflation).

    Of course we can’t please all people 100%, but you can teach them how to be pleasant and satisfied in their lives and this mechanism can play an important role instead of actual tax measures and it results will be more practical and efficacy than now. In the ruling of Omar ibn Abdul-Aziz; the nation reached a perfect application for these rules into society on a very big area in that age, but sadly these amazing solutions aren’t applied in their home countries today because all legislations and laws are inherited from the colonial institutions of the 20th century.

    I’m sure that there are many creative solutions in our world, to save resources, time, and more positive effects, besides to avoid complexities, and only we don’t know or never heard about them until now, but they deserve to consider them, get lessons and look toward the best world.

the true value isn’t the same like we see

   When we seek for obtain a lot of things in your life, of course (without any doubt) you won’t get all what you wish. But certain ones of them you’ll have them. We’ve abilities to realize them and we’ve means also which differ from a person to another.

(* Ability: the human power used to treat, to do, to analyse, and to react about something.)

(* Possibility: cover the available means and conditions around you in order to facilitate your steps on the road to do something.)

   I’m not talking today about the first side ( the mentally differences between people), we’ll discourse about the second side which concern basically the environment, and sometimes we meet difficulties where we test rightly these various powers and tools to realize these wishes in the fact.

   Usually; you do an enormous effort to get them, and this effort let you estimate how much us valuable this result. When the work was hard to do something, later; you estimate it as a precious thing for your life.

   In the other hand ; when you get something easily or without making any effort maybe other people helped you or bring it to you, you won’t make any care or value for this thing, because you can have it in anytime you want it ( it’s between your hands and he’s you who commands ).

   Remember now what’s the actual goal you work to achieve it, and how you think it’s important for you, maybe this goal is a good business deal, or graduating, investment or any project means a lot for you. What are the reasons make you think that they’re important? {Simply because you know that the precious things can’t come in easy}. Maybe it’s true and I agree with you but relatively only, let me tell you why.

   When you get something without effort surely you don’t make a big care about it, and you insult that because if you lose it you can hold it again (Like keys in your hand). So many things in your life look so precious in your opinion, but in fact they aren’t. You worked seriously to obtain them, in result to earn from it later, therefore you’re eager to obtain it and spend your time, your resources (waiting for the happy results).

    What I want to clarify here is: what we own in easy (maybe) or just it seems like that, and we don’t evaluate it. We don’t feel how much it’s necessary for the actual condition even we lose it. In that time we see how wrong we were before, and we were like foolish people because we didn’t evaluate rightly the matter. In that time the regret won’t be useful for you. It’s normal to be mistaken in case of when you can correct that later and maybe to possess the missed things again, but how can you do when he matter is a person? The next article will show the details of this aspect.

the dialogue, the best way of communication (to keeping your relationships)

    Nobody disagrees that the dialog is important in life between people, and through it we can make a platform for our relationships and understand each other, regardless to the type of these relations. But: some people prefer their impression to define the way of communication with others, and they interpret by their minds only instead to make debates and talking explicitly.

     I give you some examples: “my friends didn’t call me last 2 weeks and I think this friend is angry at me”, or “there’s something new, it happened but my friend didn’t tell me about it yet, and i heard from others. I think there is a problem when he (she) didn’t tell me immediately about it”.  Even now “I just THINK”, right !!! And I’m sure that you’ve that in your life, with friends, colleagues, at least it happened once. And many other examples are in people’s life. The problems appear when you let your thoughts go far and without any criteria you start to react from them, which are made of your fiction only, in many times so far from the fact. Your imagination brings you this reasoning and these conclusions to destabilize your relations with this person or that friend, and probably it’ll be broken in the end.

    It was nice to so do something better (before tiring your mind by empty thinking, and interpret something aren’t true), it’s better to talk directly with the concerned person in the matter, and shorten your way.

   I advise you (in your talking) to use the decency of dialogue, don’t rely on your thoughts at all, ask: “what happens?” in first, what’s the strange income in last days? The reasons which lead you to this situation. Then inquire about the details, make a positive dialogue, honest conversation, because when the other person clarifies the matter to you, certainly you’ll avoid a lot of conflicts in your mind, and with this person (friend or colleague,..).

   That it happens often between friends, and sometimes these thoughts let the relation in forested position, you shouldn’t forget that your goal to get a progress, not to establish the proof on this friend that he (she) is wrong. In order to strengthen the relation not to look like winner and lose people who are around you. Remember that always before doing any stupid reaction can make you regret.

   My friend, if you’ve anything about me, or any strange feeling about me; please I’ll be grateful if you tell me honestly about it, and we can talk about the matter and handle everything together, it’ s better than staying in doubts.

   Don’t let your thoughts fill the gaps in your mind to give answers, and these guesses decide in your place and define your treatment with people, there is always a way better to keep your relationships well, when you talk clearly and hear what the other side has in mind, you can understand the answer, after that you can judge and decide.

Time out .. to look back.

The life is full of coincidences, surprises, and many events, for everybody. And we’ve to interact  with them and have a reaction toward everything happen.

The majority of these crossroads happen in second and third decades of our lives (an a little bit maybe happen before too). Where the friends are as close as the family (or more), where we start really make deals and pacts with this world.

In first clash with real face of life, we don’t know what we should do exactly, we walk in very careful steps (less experiences), or stat imitating people around us, to feel by some of confidence. The fate gives us many opportunities to meet precious people (and some people want to help us, and others hurt us in somehow), but the good news is:

That the both are giving the help, the first one is easy to understand, but the second is an experience which makes us stronger than before in front of life. And the two kinds of people, together; guide us to conclude that in the life we must go ahead.

And of course, the years are expiring quickly, and the life also, new experiences, new knowledge and new people around us too.

 It’s sooo busy life, right ? !!! the success after another .. and everything looks well, because we feel that. We’re still looking for the future and we think a lot how can we make a great future, but before few months, or years …etc we felt the same ( I guess). The question is :

Why we forgot the people of preview years (or just months) ? you can answer me that is the life.  But let me try to help you in answer, some people were beside you in bad times (all time) and you should be grateful to them ( at least by staying in touch with them), because now; you’re us you’re it, through their help and their standing beside you,  ( the problem is that we forgot the bad times, when we’re fine , and also forgot that kind people.) and we don’t appreciate really what others did for us in those times.

Did you think maybe one of them  desperately need you now ? or just talk with ( to give the feeling of not isolation ) Prove him ( her) that he (she) isn’t excluded or  marginalized.

I’ll tell my opinion here, if you never thought about that, even these people were always so kind and polite with you, always, so you worthily have honor of appellation ” SELFISH “.

Why not, now you have many people and friends, you don’t need ancients of them, you abhor to think in old way, as you were before, yes ! even you were also happy how you were in that time.

If you continue thinking in the same way as you’re now, and stay in contact with these friends, what can change? Nothing !!!

The word “precious”, means that’s rarely to find such as that thing. And also the friend, when you find him \ her, you’ll be so stupid if you left him \ her after short time.

The life can change our interests, but shouldn’t change our good principles, our good qualities,  And if the future is everything for you, so no future without your outcomes from past.

Maybe someone agrees with me, and someone no, share with us your opinions and answers about these questions.