Our relationships .. With our family members.

     The family; we can’t preferring anything else instead of them, they’re always in the first place and we feel more safety when we see them around. In some cases the relationship with one member among them or maybe more, - this relationship- suffers from some troubles, and unfortunately for years also it’s broken between the brothers and sisters.

     That’s our topic today, we’ll define the nature of these relationships, and moreover we’ll find a way to treat them in the goodness.

     I met many people and friends too who told me that they’ve problems in their families; they see that’s impossible to handle them, because the reactions were worse too. Problems with uncles and aunts, even with brothers and sisters “it’s so awful really.”

    We start with some questions: when it was the last time where you sit with your parents and you talked to them for while in different topics? Or may I ask about the last call between you and them?!!! Many people wished to have a sister and you can’t see how much you’re lucky to have this sister? Regardless if she’s sometimes stubborn, but she’s your sister; right? I think it’s a much luck and it’s very good feature to have her (or his). I heard about many people who wish to have a sister or brother, they wish to meet their parents once, but they can’t because the dead can’t return to life again.

    In family; you all like each other so much; you’ll have these conflicts sometimes and because of this strong reliance and love between you; you always return to each other and continue again like nothing happened before, because the love overcomes the anger and the forgiveness wins finally

    I expect this end for some reasons, if your brother or sister is “Soft-headed”, I don’t think that you’re also the same, else you’ll react badly too. If you’re still reading now so I guess you want to find a solution for this kind of situations.

    The life is so short, and remember always that you’ll regret the days where you’re far from the family, I don’t mean by “far” in the physical distance, but the distance between hearts. Even they behave wrong with you, you shouldn’t react wrong, or you confront them with their bad deeds, and you should correct that and keep this warm relation to continue more. They’re humans and they can do mistakes, else why I’m his brother (her sister) if I can’t forgive him (her)? That’s why we’re a family.

    We all need a second chance and be optimist to get great relationships, because the only “thing to correct the mistakes of others is: to do the right thing in return when you react. “The forgiveness (the tolerance) is the first step to reach the happiness.” Later I’ll talk more about the family ties, like a symbol of humanity and model of human life. We’ll be glad if you share us your opinions and comments.