the true value isn’t the same like we see

   When we seek for obtain a lot of things in your life, of course (without any doubt) you won’t get all what you wish. But certain ones of them you’ll have them. We’ve abilities to realize them and we’ve means also which differ from a person to another.

(* Ability: the human power used to treat, to do, to analyse, and to react about something.)

(* Possibility: cover the available means and conditions around you in order to facilitate your steps on the road to do something.)

   I’m not talking today about the first side ( the mentally differences between people), we’ll discourse about the second side which concern basically the environment, and sometimes we meet difficulties where we test rightly these various powers and tools to realize these wishes in the fact.

   Usually; you do an enormous effort to get them, and this effort let you estimate how much us valuable this result. When the work was hard to do something, later; you estimate it as a precious thing for your life.

   In the other hand ; when you get something easily or without making any effort maybe other people helped you or bring it to you, you won’t make any care or value for this thing, because you can have it in anytime you want it ( it’s between your hands and he’s you who commands ).

   Remember now what’s the actual goal you work to achieve it, and how you think it’s important for you, maybe this goal is a good business deal, or graduating, investment or any project means a lot for you. What are the reasons make you think that they’re important? {Simply because you know that the precious things can’t come in easy}. Maybe it’s true and I agree with you but relatively only, let me tell you why.

   When you get something without effort surely you don’t make a big care about it, and you insult that because if you lose it you can hold it again (Like keys in your hand). So many things in your life look so precious in your opinion, but in fact they aren’t. You worked seriously to obtain them, in result to earn from it later, therefore you’re eager to obtain it and spend your time, your resources (waiting for the happy results).

    What I want to clarify here is: what we own in easy (maybe) or just it seems like that, and we don’t evaluate it. We don’t feel how much it’s necessary for the actual condition even we lose it. In that time we see how wrong we were before, and we were like foolish people because we didn’t evaluate rightly the matter. In that time the regret won’t be useful for you. It’s normal to be mistaken in case of when you can correct that later and maybe to possess the missed things again, but how can you do when he matter is a person? The next article will show the details of this aspect.