Be vigilant! , Don’t jump on the ladder to don’t fall down on the floor.

   When we’re young; we’ve many different wishes in the life, also the dreams are in the top degree because of many reasons, principally immaturity of these young sometimes, and in many other times the big hole between the theoretical thinking (wishes) and the life in fact. These young people get the first shocks when they are confronted with the reality outside home and university. It seems a little different to what you’d in mind “before”.

   Before this time you had less of responsibilities, less of obligations to do, but now you must work, activate, be a productive person, to have your own life and be responsible on everything depend to you.

   In the first time, this young thinks “maybe it’s a temporary event, a temporary crisis, and everything will be –soon- okay and like in the plan. But many times it isn’t true; it won’t be as you planned. And when you can’t continue in this way, You should be flexible with the matter and adopt a little with your environment.

   In these times; you should make a distinction between two things which you confused already between them, the ambition, and the dream. The first one means: something is difficult to get it, hard to achieve it, but it’s possible to do (with a certain time), the second means: it’s impossible to realize that in the reality because of many reasons they could be (the time, the environment, the abilities, the temporary life conditions, and maybe we can mix them too…)

   It’s an important idea for the next days, the next years and all your life, why important? To regulate the plan, to modify and adopt your direction, remove something, add others, classify priorities, ..etc, I don’t want to fix you here, or make you disappointed from that, the dreams are existing in the human life, they come in minds to let us keep the hope and don’t surrender, but your sitting between dreams and your imaginations is like a drug for your mind to live a virtual life. (Keeping in mind the previous separation between ambition and dream), because it doesn’t let you do anything in fact. You just decoy yourself when the time is going on.

“If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place”

  This idea (of regularization \ of self-organization) will be always with you, and every time you’ll have some breakpoints to apply that and adopt again your new direction. There are many ways to define the gaols so that you have them, -probably I will talk about that in the next articles -.

  It’s the wisdom to deviate a little far from your way, but you don’t leave your headlines which you already drew them. When you look back and see the traces of your steps, you can evaluate them only if you’re objective with yourself. So as not to break your heart or to block your mind, to not waste yourself and your life; think about efficient goals in your life to feel positively and can to do more; later, and make them (these goals) as intermediate step for your targets, and don’t jump from the first step toward the goal. You’ve to be patient and don’t hurry to get immediate results.

  Of course; you still keep your goals with you, and you’ll work until the end to realize your aims and to get those targets in the life, but maybe in different way (According to the environment around you).

  You’ll have some opportunities in the road, and also obstacles from the same nature -from time to time-. If you’re clever enough you’ll invest in these moments to cross many steps in your life, and achieve your regulated goals (according to actual conditions) in the end.