We
can’t deny the effect of our understanding to the matter on the way how we
react and teat after, therefore we should always think carefully before doing
any step in way to reacting. Today we continue in the same context with the
previous article and highlighting some terms be displaying the differences
between.
And I continue today with this couple of
words “education” & “care”. It’s very important matter in our life whether
in level of family or society in general. A lot of people know really that
there’s a difference between the two words, but in fact they can’t apply that
true meaning of each one. In other words; people confuse between them
practically and not idiomatically. I mean when they think themselves doing the
act of education (educating their children for example); in fact they’re just
doing enough care about them, and nothing else. Many of them understand that
the education is to provide the necessary for a normal life like doing
homework, feeding them, supplying food and outfit, giving instructions like
brush your teeth, eat well, …etc, with a view to have the typical way of life, and
by the way that means a care only and some rules that help to organizing the
ordinary process of the life.
But the education is depending to the
principles that the kid must carry for his life to manage it correctly the most
possible and redirect his behaviours towards the right way. And according
to my simple knowledge about this issue, I learnt and I searched about: what scientist
say in the matter, then I preferred here to transfer that to you through this
article and I say that the principles are coming by teaching new thoughts and
training to have special convictions from, those principles are the headlines
of life and making deep roots for great values in themselves to define how
normally should they behave and deal with their environment. Second one is
changing their interest and redirect them to integrate into different areas of
life (since the childhood) in order to learn more skills (artistic, technical,
social, ..etc), regardless to their personal tendencies.
Because of one from mistakes of parents
during the education is to let them do anything they want freely, and don’t
interfere by their experience to redirect their children’s desires until they
lose the control. The results - often -will be an irresponsible person in the
end and without any landmark in life as a genuine human.
The education requires too to transplant
the proper values and reinforce its pillars, to interfere in the relationships
of children and help them how to manage conflicts, how to spot them and fix the
problems, guide them to have good companions,…etc. without forgetting an
important factor to help you in this mission, the factor is to “making models”
for them whom they fellow and imitate, that has a huge effect on personalities
and on their future generally and to be successful in life.
Furthermore; you see how we can look so
wrong only because we don’t interpret rightly the true meaning of each term and
then we behave different than we intend to do. The matter here is like giving
direct decisions without any explanation; and the second is teaching how to
take that decision in logical process according to the previous factors that
the children already got them in the same time. So it’s important issue and
everybody should care more about it in this life.
Dear;
RépondreSupprimerFirst of all i want to thank you for this important view. I appreciated .
According to my experience as a babysitter in different daycares , i observed that kids need care first on their lives. The childhood care allow to get attention and love which help them to reach the correct education easly and learn the principles that they must carry in their lives . In my opinion geting education is the second important step to get a strong kids.there is a strong relationship between this 2 words even the defferent meaning of each of them. Kids need both of care and education inorder to face the life correctly.
Immane bey