The life requires being in touch with people
because of plenty of reasons in order to deal then to obtain the desires and
interests.
Nobody
denies that the pressures (which come through life’s events and problems) they
tire the person and break his will to doing something important as we said
before. So it’s an ordinary fact that everyone can have in his life.
In
many times these situations are hard to overcoming them alone and maybe the
solution -to handle them- comes from a separated person to the matter as the
talking (with someone truthful and trustworthy who can understand you very well
as he can understand that matter) is very helpful psychologically in way to
resolve your problems, also the listening is useful too.
If you already met that or someone whom you
know in this case (your friend, sibling, colleagues, or just you met him in bus
one day) and you heard from him that what’ we mentioned above, it means that
this person has a need for help, and hoping to find something with you, else he
couldn’t tell you explicitly, if you’re in this case and you can say something
useful, so don’t hesitate to tell it (in order to add a positive value of course), don’t hold
back the good words from going outside of your heart! Even if you weren’t asked
directly to tell; that you’re able; so release your tongue to bring a positive
addition, and to be like a brightening source for your listeners. That because
you don’t have the same stress and pressures, so you can bring a different view
to the matter and telling your opinion in its positive sense. In the end
it’s an opinion but it can be an important part of solution.
You’re able to tell something useful about
the matter that you heard, tell it when you’re permitted to tell! The time
goes on, and maybe you forget after a while what you already said, whereas that
person will live those words in his reality “like a medicine” where they
affected positively on him and on his life generally forever. So that
concerned person can recover the hope from your good words, you may be raising
his morale, help to change a conviction to the better, all those results can
come just through your wise word when you said it.
You aren’t waiting for any recompense
neither thanking, after that try to helping (because maybe you just met once
and only one in your life) just do it for nothing in return as a service to
someone even when you don’t know him. But when you grant this favour it’ll
bring the happiness to your heart that you did something valuable really, one
day you’ll meet also who tells you a good word and helps you. Don’t stop
telling helpful words when you can that. Just keep yourself saying good words
for people whom you know or you meet always in everywhere you’re whatever the
situation, that’s better than keeping the silence and being neutral.
In
fact; don’t refrain yourself from telling good words necessary for the
situation when you think it’s the
suitable time for it, that favour can be so instrumental for the second person
when you do it, in our life it can be also wider than to be limited in words, maybe
a mental or a physical effort, every favour (small or big) it’s a great
service.
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