Time out .. to look back.

The life is full of coincidences, surprises, and many events, for everybody. And we’ve to interact  with them and have a reaction toward everything happen.

The majority of these crossroads happen in second and third decades of our lives (an a little bit maybe happen before too). Where the friends are as close as the family (or more), where we start really make deals and pacts with this world.

In first clash with real face of life, we don’t know what we should do exactly, we walk in very careful steps (less experiences), or stat imitating people around us, to feel by some of confidence. The fate gives us many opportunities to meet precious people (and some people want to help us, and others hurt us in somehow), but the good news is:

That the both are giving the help, the first one is easy to understand, but the second is an experience which makes us stronger than before in front of life. And the two kinds of people, together; guide us to conclude that in the life we must go ahead.

And of course, the years are expiring quickly, and the life also, new experiences, new knowledge and new people around us too.

 It’s sooo busy life, right ? !!! the success after another .. and everything looks well, because we feel that. We’re still looking for the future and we think a lot how can we make a great future, but before few months, or years …etc we felt the same ( I guess). The question is :

Why we forgot the people of preview years (or just months) ? you can answer me that is the life.  But let me try to help you in answer, some people were beside you in bad times (all time) and you should be grateful to them ( at least by staying in touch with them), because now; you’re us you’re it, through their help and their standing beside you,  ( the problem is that we forgot the bad times, when we’re fine , and also forgot that kind people.) and we don’t appreciate really what others did for us in those times.

Did you think maybe one of them  desperately need you now ? or just talk with ( to give the feeling of not isolation ) Prove him ( her) that he (she) isn’t excluded or  marginalized.

I’ll tell my opinion here, if you never thought about that, even these people were always so kind and polite with you, always, so you worthily have honor of appellation ” SELFISH “.

Why not, now you have many people and friends, you don’t need ancients of them, you abhor to think in old way, as you were before, yes ! even you were also happy how you were in that time.

If you continue thinking in the same way as you’re now, and stay in contact with these friends, what can change? Nothing !!!

The word “precious”, means that’s rarely to find such as that thing. And also the friend, when you find him \ her, you’ll be so stupid if you left him \ her after short time.

The life can change our interests, but shouldn’t change our good principles, our good qualities,  And if the future is everything for you, so no future without your outcomes from past.

Maybe someone agrees with me, and someone no, share with us your opinions and answers about these questions.