The life is full of coincidences, surprises, and many
events, for everybody. And we’ve to interact
with them and have a reaction toward everything happen.
The majority of these crossroads happen in second and
third decades of our lives (an a little bit maybe happen before too). Where the
friends are as close as the family (or more), where we start really make deals
and pacts with this world.
In first clash with real face of life, we don’t know
what we should do exactly, we walk in very careful steps (less experiences), or
stat imitating people around us, to feel by some of confidence. The fate gives
us many opportunities to meet precious people (and some people want to help us,
and others hurt us in somehow), but the good news is:
That the both are giving the help, the first one is
easy to understand, but the second is an experience which makes us stronger
than before in front of life. And the two kinds of people, together; guide us
to conclude that in the life we must go ahead.
And of course, the years are expiring quickly, and the
life also, new experiences, new knowledge and new people around us too.
It’s sooo busy
life, right ? !!! the success after another .. and everything looks well,
because we feel that. We’re still looking for the future and we think a lot how
can we make a great future, but before few months, or years …etc we felt the
same ( I guess). The question is :
Why we forgot the people of preview years (or just
months) ? you can answer me that is the life.
But let me try to help you in answer, some people were beside you in bad
times (all time) and you should be grateful to them ( at least by staying in
touch with them), because now; you’re us you’re it, through their help and
their standing beside you, ( the
problem is that we forgot the bad times, when we’re fine , and also forgot that
kind people.) and we don’t appreciate really what others did for us in
those times.
Did you think maybe one of them desperately need you now ? or just talk with
( to give the feeling of not isolation ) Prove him ( her) that he (she) isn’t excluded or marginalized.
I’ll tell my opinion here, if you never thought about
that, even these people were always so kind and polite with you, always, so you
worthily have honor of appellation ” SELFISH “.
Why not, now you have many people and friends, you
don’t need ancients of them, you abhor to think in old way, as you were before,
yes ! even you were also happy how you were in that time.
If you continue thinking in the same way as you’re
now, and stay in contact with these friends, what can change? Nothing !!!
The word “precious”, means that’s rarely to find such
as that thing. And also the friend, when you find him \ her, you’ll be so
stupid if you left him \ her after short time.
The life can change our interests, but shouldn’t
change our good principles, our good qualities,
And if the future is everything for you, so no future without your
outcomes from past.
Maybe someone agrees with me, and someone no,
share with us your opinions and answers about these questions.
