dimanche 15 octobre 2017

The advantages of travelling across the world

   I continue in the idea that says: “Not everything you think it’s good for you; it’s truly the good one.”
   The traveling is something exhausting for everyone although today it’s easier -and a lot- than it was in the past. I won’t talk about touristic traveling here, but I mean when the traveling is a necessary and obligatory in somehow -maybe from a city to another, or even to go to a different country-.
   Usually in those situations; people taste the batter of hard moment to be obliged to do that. That’s one among events which seem bad in first glance, right!! But the history told us many similar experiences and just different in details. The idea is when you feel yourself obliged to leave your current environment for certain reasons, means that you couldn’t get there (in where you’re now) what you look for, and that becomes helpless to you. It’s hard to quit your comfort zone (as many psychologists call that), whereas it doesn’t mean always to be bad as people think (or as imagine), and one scholar and poet said (before centuries)
   For reaching your goals and satisfying your vim; Immigrate in different countries, because you’ll get five benefits from traveling:
The translation is :
 * Immigrate in the homelands to appealing the summits in life, because in traveling there are five (05) benefits:
1- relief of your worries, 2- acquisition of livelihoods, 3- a science and literatures, 4- decency, and 5- a precious companionship whom you really can coexist with them (he meant : the travel shows you the right person who deserves to be your companion).
* And if they tell that in traveling there is humbleness, or an ordeal, and crossing deserts with difficulties of meeting [with family and relatives, which isn’t as hard as in past]; so the death is better for the person instead of sitting at home for deterioration, and suffering from the slander, the censure, or the envy.
   That’s what the poet said from his knowledge and experiences, and to motivate people to traveling without any fears from it, because to be in different place surrounded by different people, all those sides can show the person more opportunities in the new different environment, because s/he can see their life from new perspectives, as the poet said and it can be the opening of your future and the good life in few months of years later. Moreover the advantages and bounties we mentioned above here.
    Many people exploded their powers and reached their horizons just when they travelled and lived in far place different to their hometown city -or country-, because they met with new chances, and their different looking way to the life, then they can see the opportunities which they can work on (whether in studies, or professional career, or any interest in social life of people). They quickly adapt with the environment and naturally they get the inner motivation because it’s a new experience and there is an enthusiasm inside to do more in it, and usually they achieve their goals with some persistence, also they got more skills and experiences in life.
    If you keep your optimist mood and patience, then don’t regret nor doubt from your previous steps, to be sure and confident and strong enough (not to be confused from). To trust them (those experiences) for making new steps forward and while the goal is to improving yourself always; then you’ve to accept starting modestly and convinced.

    And I finish with this adage of one wise man when he said: “I don’t care in the way how I’ll become [in each morning] good or bad, because I don’t know truly where the goodness for me is: in what I like or what I dislike.”

dimanche 8 octobre 2017

the destiny and fairness

   The idea that I finished my last article with, I’ll continue with it here too, not everything is good just because we see that. So this miraculous mean “the mind” is amazing like the reality proves to us, but it’s limited in certain stage to show the shortage in human thinking, we can deny that some stuff are above on our abilities and we can surround all and from all sides.
   In starting from people’s requirements, the difficulties come against, and like that everyone think that his challenges in life are the hardest circumstances that someone can have in the world entirely, why? Because the tests are coming according to your abilities against them exactly (those abilities are different from one to another) which allow you enough to conquer them and overcome to what’s next.
   We come to the main point, along the life, the event that seems the reason to refrain you, (in the same times) it can be the guarantee which guarantees your safety later, and then you’ll be redirected towards a new wail for your life and new destiny as well. Also what seems to be bad for you, it can be the best right now, really.
   Which means, how many stories were looking unjust for some people but the time show that it was good to be like that, and an important element to leading to good destiny, I mean instead they regret, they became glad to have this scenario? The morality is to not be rush to be pessimist from your bad times because probably those times are leaning your destiny and leading you to your correct way; maybe it’s better than what you imagined well for you.
   We can have a different life really in its details, but we can’t avoid the guidance of destiny in headlines according to our beginnings which often we don’t command in them.
   What looks bad in our estimation can bring good future within after a while, and what you thought that is better if you’ll have; can be the bad scenario for your life and your future.
   In the next article I’ll bring an example in the same context and we’ll see together the positive sides in life that are coming from what we dislike to happen to us.

dimanche 1 octobre 2017

Part 03: differences equity & equality

   To continue the ordinary process of life ; people in life clash with many difficulties during the daily routine.
   I always simulate the destiny in life to the tree, the starting of life begins from the root and what they can offer to you as traits circumstances and characteristics and when the person starts really the life and each decision makes a real difference. It means you’re in way crossing so you’ll take one of mains branches on the tree (your tree), then the actual conditions in that will lead you again and again to more branches along your life.
   Generally the tree’s branches display how many possible way were in your life since the birthday, but your decisions and your starting too were the guide all the time towards the situation that you’re right now.
    I give you here another example, the god’s wisdom and ability are occurring in the nature and it’s almost talking in this following way:  excuse me Madame! This is not your way, you can’t pass from it, but you should pass from the easiest one in the other side there, this is just according to the men’s abilities that can resist here. And the same words are for men in other sides of life, also depending to the kind of their abilities and I want to say that the equity never refers the passing from the same way, else it’ll be equality and that’s unjust for some people in many times alike.
    We need to understand that in our minds and to realize well that’s not necessary to be with others in the same way, to be sure you’re the same like them. That leads us to another rules we should learn in this life; don’t unleash absolutely your freedom, until you hurt yourself, people or environment around you! while you aren't aware about that.

    Those ways in everybody’s life are representing his destiny, and like that the destiny offers sometimes the good ways we should benefit from. But we often see the good things -for us- just when they’re according to our desires, although it’s not true always. We can see that in many events happen in our lives, people interpret it like a nature power, but they agree it’s an extraordinary thing above the human. Of course it the life’s nature; coming from the absolute ability of its creator.