What are the serious matters that the person has to think about ?

    As we said before, the mind’s mission can’t be shorten only in creating and innovating new things in the people’s lives, we can’t deny the grace of great innovations those came to us from great minds during centuries, and of course they did a great favour for all the humanity, but we’ve also something else more important to do in the same time depending directly to the self of everyone (they might do it and no one can do it instead of another, because it’s a direct importance for every person).

    In this part, we’ll show some parts that are concerning this side of human life. Perhaps some people who are very successful in their lives, but they’re living in hell inside home, or they’re struggling with health problems too, and they can’t fix their personal problems at home even the most simple ones, and he can’t be so pleasant by his life although he’s successful person in his goals. Or maybe the reverse too Right ! So, what to do in this situation?

    Scientists confirm that the human life is based on several pillars so be stable such as (spiritual, social “familial & personal”, emotional, professional, physical health, and material). And whenever the person has a trouble in one among these principal pillars, be sure that this person has an instable life.  And the happiness is relied on the balance between all sides of life. If there is any side smaller than others there’ll be instability in the life of that person, so the matter necessitates a serious care about to recover the balance again by focusing more on that leanness side and decreasing from other strong ones.

    Finally, I ask everybody who reads to draw that wheel of those six sides and evaluate himself in each one from “0” (zero) in the centre of wheel until “10” in the circle. Then you’ll find out how is going your wheel? Is it running well? So where is the defect in, and then what’s the next procedure to handle it?

    The minority of people only who recognized in life that many matters are as important as the material things and professional career. When you‘re thinking always in way how to develop your career, don’t forget to look how to keep your peace inside and repose your soul by satisfying your spiritual needs (which looks marginal in many times); meantime by thinking for a way to preserve the strong ties in your familial life, interacting with people, and so on.  Like that every person can attain the minimum at least to realize himself and do an important step towards his happiness.

What does everybody need? (From being in touch with others)

    It’s very obvious to us that everyone needs to interact with his environment by all its components, and in the first place interacting with other people like him. And I would like to remind you that the human nature is for living in sociable way to deal and react with that.

How can that interaction be in right meaning?

Keeping the hope:

    As we said before; the hope is very important factor to continue on the road, and without it; the people have no will to realize something they wish in life, they even lose the wish to do. But when your milieu brings to you the hope in somehow, and people around you are supporting you, trying to motivate you in several ways, show you some light in the murk of hopelessness. Show you their standing by your side, in that situation you may feel some hope and your mind lighted again by a new mental charge – like a device that turn on when it’s connected  to electricity-, all that to not surrender and retake the will to do what’s important for you.

More of patience:

    When you recover your hope, you’ll have the necessary energy to restart in right way. You’ll think how can you make yourself better and then your life in the good sense, when you recover your taste to life again you start looking for a way how to handle that, Even if these people they don’t know all details and the real circumstances around and pressures within; but when you feel their support, you’ll be shy if you disappoint their belief in you. But it’s not enough; you need the patience to not rush on results and keep doing your efforts to overcome the hardness of your bad times.

Strength and understanding through contact:

    When you need someone to talk to; you’ll be lucky if you find that person. Because people rarely when they think to give some of their time to others, whereas they should do that many times (I talked about that when I said that the happiness comes by giving more than by taking in life, so like you get try to give them also when it's possible). The discussion is the way to clarifying any confusion comes in minds, and rectify the thoughts.

    So it’s very important to the person to get that from his environment because he feels himself a factor in it, and a valuable element also, not just a rigid piece, and the close people are committed to do that.

Aspiration:

    Clearly to have the hope and the necessary strength to fulfil something fruitful in your life, it’s preferable to be in touch with very positive people who can motivate you and affect on you through their positive aura, positive charge, energies, and motivating sensitive words, to inspire from their process in life, in how they behave and dealing with challenges, and their effective doings towards realizing their goals. In result, you’ll reload your battery again, you’ll be positive too and very ambitious to get what you’re looking for, then your feelings will be always pushing you towards this required target (which increase your hope too) and you’ll achieve it while you’re still ambitious and in this stimulating environment.

    Mainly those are very important to have but moreover; people want to have trust and confidence, joy, sympathizing with them in life to not feel isolated and their presence in the mankind‘s life and not just a piece in one corner - to avoiding more diseases those coming from the lack of social dealings in life like the autism -.

    People are committed to contacting each other in our world because of the nature of life’s rules and be acquainted for exchanging thoughts and ideas, taking part of knowledge and sciences, sharing feelings and emotions and values too, contributing in the general and personal development alike, even the bad experiences will be a kind of sedateness and like a guide to you for what’s next in life, all those by being in contact righty with each other which broaden the horizons, and let the minds more opened.

What does everybody need? (To realize his existence correctly in life).

The human is the only creature on the planet that possesses a mind, and he’s featured by this great grace between all creatures to find out the reason and the purpose from his existence in the world. It means that all creatures in the universe are created to be devoted for the human, and realizing his existence.  But not all people have the luck to discover that with the truth which says that everybody is created for a specified reason.

Habitually; we got the first information from people around us who experimented them before, in other words it’s a ready knowledge we obtain easily from others, and that’s running ordinarily between generations.  The past provides an immense service for humanity to learn lessons from mistakes of previous people (individuals or in groups). Those previous experiences can guide us to developing ourselves in the everyday life (in all its details). It was the mind that let the humanity did great steps towards the luxury of life and civilization during centuries and eras. The lifestyle of people is growing up constantly and always there is a new thing comes (from creative minds) to our world in order to facilitate the life and to make it easier and more comfort than before. We can see an interpretation of that in several things around us whether in material or mental products and creations; we can touch the progress in comparing with previous eras.

That mission (which the mind provides to us) requires to keep moving on the same road, learning from previous mistakes, and correct into the current life, all that for serving the next generations to have a life better than ours now, we teach them from childhood to establish on the previous gained -knowledge (and start from where the previous are stopped, like defining the headlines of life)then they continue the process in the same context and of course the same mission that the mind is required to do.

When the destiny leads you to a side that you didn’t want (looks like that in first time), and although you spared no effort to get that, don’t be so upset from it because you reached the side that you need in fact (instead what you want), the god’s wisdom wanted to give you what’s necessary and important for you right now, your mind can’t recognize all at same time whereas your creator can do, so respect that and accept in your life and don’t be rush in getting your desires.

During that time, the mind has to do something else, it’s depending to the everyday life, serious matters which every person must think and care enough about them. Those matters are relying on the human life generally from the beginning until the end, the next time; we’ll show generally the essence of these serious matters.

“A life without decency is a silly life, without a mission or responsibility it’s so stupid life and so bored life when there isn’t a goal from the whole life.”  - Dr. An-Nabulsi.

The purposes in life … and purposes of life (part 01).

    Like the people have plenty of interests in their lives, also their purposes differ too, and if you ask a sample among them about the purpose of everybody in his life, you will find many wonder and they hesitate to give an answer because they ever get this question in mind. Si the answer can’t be so easy to tell neither clear. That difficulty for answering is coming from the importance of its question for everyone. If I change the form of question a little and I say “how can you say that you realized the goal from your existence?” then the mind leads to bring answers about dreams or goals that they want to achieve, of course according to their interests in the life.

    And you also start hearing something like :” I want to have my own business, to establish my private company, having my family with me and suitable job, …etc.” from interests of people that they everyday work on. Now I return to my first question and look for answer if there is a difference between “purposes (in / from) life?”

    The majority can’t distinguish between the two clauses according to these prepositions into the sentence. Of course everybody has a purpose in his life and it means: “what does he want?” the purposes from awaking up early in every morning and bearing pressures, going to work, traveling for business affairs, until the end of day with null energy, all that only to realize some goals in the end and to obtain some desires from what he want to have. But the second part which means: “what’s the reason from my life?” and why you’re existing in this life? So if we could find a quick answer for the first question although it’s not easy to find for all, we’re also required to find a one for the second question.

    The human won’t reach the happiness and calm in his soul whatever his circumstances are, until he finds out why he’s in this world. What’s the reason from his creation in the world? And that’s a question for everyone must answer it. Did I come to this life only for doing what I want? And all what I’m looking for; is it the only important matter in my whole life? I made some questions just to animate our minds towards interesting issues, the purposes that we’re looking for in life aren’t the purpose from being alive on the ground whereas they come across in the context, but something else are as important as the goals of our desires.