in the same context with the previous part; where I
took the health’s problems as an example to show some views about the matter of
bearing more time the current situation.
I said also that to coping the situation is depending
to the hope, if you lose the gleam of your hope in the matter -that probably it
can be fine-, so you’re late to think about it, better to not think again.
It is normal when someone is confused about the way to
handle, that's not only your feeling, because it’s the same like many people just
with different problems that clash them, maybe you prefer to surrender because
of some hopeless thoughts but it’s wrong choice, when you’re feeling so weak;
remember it doesn't mean the end of course, our powers and moral are like a
curve (up & down), and also the process of life. Now weak and after a while
you become stronger, when it’s in a positive moment so it's your chance to pass
that hardness of your problem.
By the way, "to overcome a problem, never means
that you finished from it, but it means that you handle it and you found a way
to deal with"
i guess the majority of people isn't completely
healthy in this world and, at least have some psychological problems or some
fears from the future (the environment brings that instability because of the
mess of events), and with the same example I can say that a lot of people
suffer from health, just different diseases which are in degrees too, remarkable
or not, ...etc.
When you repeat your mind the thought that ‘you’re
feeling weak and can’t resist, of course you’ll be convinced -after a while-
that you’re weak and your body get a weakness too, but if you believe in the
inverse, just be accustomed with different falls and rises of life during
years.
Sometimes it's a matter of psychology and the problem
is your attitude from the problem, not the problem itself, when you can
overcome in the moment that you find a logical way to deal with, wisely and
effectively, and
that’s the most important in the way to reach the end of problem. Probably the
physical pains are still with you, but their pressures which affect on your
other sides of life will decrease in your psychology from inside, so you can
bear more and I said mores:
why not to be living together with a bit sickness
whereas you’re treating yourself and using constantly the suitable medicine for
it, until you recover and get healing, or you maybe forget that you're sick
(get used with time), that's not a disaster, and maybe later that sickness will
disappear (if you’re doing the necessary and using medicines as an ordinary
treatment), and to accepting yourself as you’re in fact doesn’t mean you don’t
look for change, because the psychological side helped you a lot when you forget
about the matter which is usually some fears from future.
Basically the problem is not only in the health that
it can be perhaps with people themselves or someone else that and need their
care (like one of parents or kids who is unable), it can be also in job’s
tasks, personal life, or when dealing with relatives…etc, always you shouldn’t
neglect the side how to look to the matter regardless to ordinary process of
treatment.
So generally; it isn’t depending completely to the
case itself, but to the way how you deal with and treat it, else this weakness
will remain with you longer in your life, no different thought means no
different situation. That you change
your perspective about the matter; it’s the best way to adapt with your
circumstances, get rid of your fears, and can bear more that situation with a
good feeling in your mood for reaching the best in wise steps.
